These are the questions that we will ask:
Current Psych evals
S: Any more hallucinations (auditory, visual, or tactile)
Doing any better relating to her brother?
Discussion about same sex parents?
Need for medication for ADHD- Inattentive Type?
Animal play therapy?
T: Progress?
Any diagnosis?
Discussion about same sex parents?
Animal play therapy?
Do we have more updates from the weekly therapy sessions? Have they worked on sibling therapy?
With Foster mom:
S: Behaviors at home improved?
Any more incidents of theft?
Staring spells or hallucinations?
Relating to your dogs?
Relating to T and using sign language?
T: Still problems with accidents in his pants?
How is his tummy (still the gas?) Did you get a second opinion after not being satisfied with the last doctor’s physical?
Improving his sign? How rudimentary is his sign? Is his sign better than his English?
General for Foster Mom:
What sizes do the kids wear in clothes and shoes
Do they both have bikes? Toys?
What kinds of things do they like doing? Still cars and princess stuff?
For Kids' Case Worker:
Travel:
When can we travel?
Can we make it a long weekend (Thursday to Sunday night instead of a week- so we can come early July?)
What would the process of finalizing the adoption in Texas look like- could we do that while there? Or have to do it later?
How long after we visit will the kids transition to Oregon?
After this meeting, can we talk to the kids on the VP to get them used to seeing us and excited about meeting us? Help with the transition since we are so far away?
Can we contact Foster Mom and the kids and send videos of the house, their rooms, the schools, us, our pets, etc? To help them transition?
Will we have the kids overnight? Or just visit them during the day? Can we take them to do fun things the 4 of us or will we always be with foster mom?
Can you send their IEP and school info so we can get them enrolled in the schools and get accommodations started?
Any update on the subsidy (for boss)
Do the kids know they have been matched with us yet? Have they seen our adoption book?
We are happy because we have everything lined up the best we are able. I just ordered phone service for our home so that we can use a speaker phone for the appointment tomorrow. We are not stuck in a contract with that phone service so that is a HUGE blessing. I will have to go and purchase a cordless phone tonight. I don't think that I have ever had my own home phone line before! LOL Maybe this isn't such a bad thing since young girls like to talk on the phone and maybe this will be good for our daughter to be able to call her little friends from school!
We have an interpreter lined up for tomorrow. She is someone that we really trust and is such a kind and gentle spirit. We would not be able to do this without her, for sure! I am so thankful that God has allowed us to know so many great people and has brought us to such supportive and loving community to raise these little kiddos!!
If all goes well tomorrow during the call we should know when we can travel and meet our kids!! It will be such a surreal experience- to hear the dates, to plan the trip, and to finally hug the little souls that the Lord has sent to fill our hearts. We will have much to celebrate! I can't wait to buy pain to finish up their rooms and to get fabric to be able to make them blankets to snuggle when we have to separate. I know K is looking for basketball hoop, bikes, and other stuff... We should know more tomorrow about what they*do* have and what they will need!
I am sure I will have MUCH more to update tomorrow. That's it for now! Praying!!!!!
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